Patience is a virtue. Remain calm and pull yourself toward yourself. Search the web for your region's schedule for the update... If all else fails, go to web forums that will guide you on how to circvent certain hurdles that will enable you to get the update. XDA is a great example of where I get my info from regarding updates and when is the next one coming.
Please note that software updates are rolled out in batches and the rollout is region and model dependent, once available for your model you will receive an update to install the software
